Im new to this??

Well im 45 male and im a sex addict.
It started about 10 years ago after the birth of our second son......... What do i do? am i the only one who thinks like this and how do i stop. i spend hours on porn websites and downloading films, how productive could i be in my marriage or in work if i could stop.
Marco

Thanks

I dont think i could discuss this in a group i would be too embarassed to do so. Admitting that you masturbate to me is like being less a man than others.
I heard a radio programme on sex addiction and realised it was me they were talking about.
I was hoping to feed of others in the same situation and learn of their experiences and how they overcome their situation.
I have not sort professional help from my doctor he is male and im not sure i could approach him and he may pass me onto another professional.
At the moment im not doing anything public and dont worry i no danger to women. I am worse when im depressed or under work pressure.
Again im not going to kill myself i was describing the situation when it was at its worse.
Ive thought that the easiest way out was to visit a professional girl but i have a strong belief that this is so degrading for the woman i could not do this and it also contributes to their demise be it through drugs or a violent pimp.

You must have been in my wifes position they lady on the other side of the coin how did you cope and is there light at the end of the tunnel for your relationship?