..who is willing to work online, phone and skype video calls. I live in an area where there are no mtgs. I need a gentle, open-minded guide who understands from a personal level how interrelated shame and anorexia are and how difficult that can make step-work. The harshness of HOW just adds fuel to my disease, so please don't come at me with that.I am a female in a loving, committed relationship of 2 years with another female. Gay men or straight women are preferred.I feel like I'm writing a personals ad.. I am completely immobilized with anorexia right now and have no other choice but to try to reach out through forums, online meetings, and telemeetings..