hi i was hoping to find some one who can help me, I have recently discovered that my boyfriend of 16mths was having an online affair with a girl and its left me heart borken, I really dont know what to do with myself.Ive tryed various helplines and someone I spoke to suggested I used this site for my co dependency on realtionships, it is I see after going throught the 40 questions that I do suffer from love addiction, for me it is not a sexual thing it is the need to be loved and needed by someone else and I dont feel like a whole person with out that, its almost as if it defines me as a person.I really need someone to talk to there are no meetings where I live and I am desperate for this feeling to go away, please can someone help me?