Hi - I've been in SLAA for about four years and attempted the steps to step 9 before a big relapse, then tried SLAA HOW and got to starting step ten. But I have a repeated pattern of slipping every 2 or 3 months. This has been going on for over a year now and is quite demoralising. I attend at least 2 meetings a week (there aren't daily meetings in the north west) and make outreach calls during the week (though not as many perhaps as I ought). But after a few weeks of sobriety, I seem to forget I'm a sex and love addict, and though keep the meetings up, things start to slip away I think and I get involved in lots of other things. I don't know how I can break this pattern of slips every couple of months.  I'd appeciate any advice/feedback/suggestions/and shared experiences, particularly from people who managed to break the cycle of slipping. thanks Roger