Hi, I'm from London and just logged on here for the first time.  It is very heartening and, at the same time, scary to see how many people are affected by this.  I feel that a personal revolution from within is called for andthat you are in the process of achieving it.  I think it is a battle to face up tothe idea that something that is so pleasurable and apparently harmless canbe so destructive.  I feel I am only comfortabe in a world of fantasy, realpeople (especially women) sometimes scare me a bit and the sexual side ofmy feelings towards them (which seems overwhelming) can only be satisfied in private.I have a wife and two small kids, and we have just started having sex again and I love it, butthe next day I am back on the internet looking for wanton women I can idolise.I wish you luck, it seems that there are lots of people here who have the benefit of experience and the compassion and understanding that brings.Keep on keeping on, and congratulations on even getting this far. NewPersonHere

Hi Sassy, don't give up, I know it's bloody hard but think of yourself and the long term rather than the short term fix you'd get then the shame...There's a lot of lovely supportive people on here, just keep posting and let it all out, we're all here for each other! Good luck, let us know how you're doing :)